Find your ideal soulmate

Most people who are not in a satisfying and committed relationship are searching for their soul mate. The ability to find your ideal soul mate does take some creativity and imagination as well as hard work to accomplish. There are some principles concerning soul mates that most people do not understand or tend to ignore. Read on to learn some ground rules that will help you to be able to find the perfect soul mate for you.

[edit] Principles and myths behind soul mates

• One myth is that there is only one soul mate per lifetime.
• Soul mates are meant to be with us for a time, it can be a few months to a lifetime.
• Soul mates are to stay with us until the lesson learned is accomplished.
• Patience and sticking to your ideals, morals and values is necessary when choosing your soul mate.
• Soul mates should be who we need them to be, not who we want to change them into.

Psychics are asked daily why a lot of relationships ended and why the client thought he or she was “the one” and how they can find the person that is right for them.

[edit] Here is a guide to use to find your ideal soul mate

• Purchase a journal and write down your past history in relationships. If you immediately see an unhealthy pattern, then its time to change tactics, and learn from past mistakes.
• Write down ten qualities that you like about yourself and 5 things you want to improve upon.
• Write down the qualities and attributes you want in a soul mate.
• Describe your perfect soul mate on paper including the qualities and attributes above.
• Keep a copy in your journal make a second copy fold the paper and place it under your pillow to help you remember your quest.
• Every night when you go to bed ask the universe to find your ideal soul mate and bring them to you, visualize yourself in a happy and healthy relationship. See your soul mate in your mind as you want them to be.
• Do not ask for a “certain person” to be brought to you or to be released from an existing relationship.
• For this to work it must be for the higher good and harmful to no one.
• Repeat this process every night for at least 30 days or even longer if needed.

When you meet someone and wonder if it is your turn to find your ideal soul mate, take out your journal and evaluate the person as logically as possible. This is hard as there is a very real human tendency to try to make someone who is not ideal into someone they are not, or feel that they can change them to be what they want. This is a recipe for disaster. Humans are not patient by nature, and instead of holding out for the perfect mate, it’s easier to settle for someone who ends up hurting you in the process.

As you evaluate this person, also logically ask yourself if this person is a copy, or close copy, of your past romantic interests. If so, its time to evaluate what attracts yourself to persons who are not good for you.

If not, bite the bullet and end the association before you get hurt again. It is much better to assert patience and to wait for someone who is right, than it is to experience the pain and heartbreak of being in five relationships that are wrong because you fear being alone.

If the new person fits most of the qualities that you want and need in a soul mate, then its time to take a leap of faith and go forth in the relationship. Chances are you have found the perfect soul mate for you!